For much of my life, I have rarely stopped to consider where my natural resources came from. When I turned on the faucet, water would run. When I switched on the lights, there was electricity. So long as I paid my bills on time, like magic, I could expect a hot shower. I rarely gave thought to the power plant or reservoir, or the people working behind the scenes to make this happen. And I didn’t often consider whether these resources would be available for my grandchildren, or those thereafter.

Challenging conversations have the power to shift potential energy into kinetic energy. By discussing complex or controversial topics, we put our values and ideas into motion and create a pathway for change. When conducted with empathy and mutual respect, they can deepen our relationships and make us feel more connected to our community.

Money is that thorny, taboo topic we were taught never to discuss at the dinner table or amongst friends. Wealthy parents in particular worry that broaching the subject with their children will dampen their ambitions. It can feel safer to avoid the conversation altogether. Ultimately, however, when families create a sense of safety around discussing money, they can transmit important values that guide the rising generation toward healthy development.